Master Detachment & Watch Everything Chase YOU
Imagine being the kind of person who naturally attracts love, abundance, and opportunities. Discover the truth about how you can receive more by doing less, embody these magnetic secrets for yourself, and walk into your dream life without breaking a sweat. [Read more]
Nadiya Siackhasone
7/10/20255 min read
I want you to think of the most attractive people you know. The woman who everyone adores that lights up every room she walks into. The man who women can’t seem to get enough of. The person who seems to effortlessly receive gifts and opportunities at every corner.
What do all of these people have in common?
And no, it’s not that they’re all conventionally attractive. It’s actually something deeper. It’s
the wholeness of their energy.
The Law of Attraction & Detachment
Attracting (or manifesting) your desires, requires a delicate balance of attraction and detachment. If you desperately want something (or someone) to come into your life, you might accidentally chase it away. That feeling of desperation, fear, and doubt aligns you with the reality of lack.
While the Law of Attraction states that "like attracts like", you can't just affirm your way into your desired reality. Until you learn to let go of your attachment to a specific outcome, you’ll only continue to block your desire.
What is Detachment?
Have you noticed how you feel drawn to people who aren’t begging for your attention while you feel repelled by people who seem to cling on to you? The law of detachment works in a similar way.
The magnetic people you’re thinking of — the people who make you obsessed — don’t need you or your attention. Whether they love you or don’t, they know deep down that they don’t need you.
This doesn’t mean that they don’t care about you. Detachment isn’t the same as indifference. Detachment is understanding that you don’t own people (or anything at all really), and it allows you to appreciate things for what they are — while you can.
Detachment = Deeper connection
When you detach from what you need from people, you can finally connect with who they are at their core. This is what true connection looks like.
When you’re connecting with people from a place of authenticity and wholeness, you’re not trying to manipulate the narrative in order to get what you want from them. You're actually letting yourself experience them
When you carry this abundant energy of already having the love you desire, the abundant resources, and the endless opportunities, you effortlessly attract more of this into your reality. This is a result of alignment.
Do Less, Get More
Did you know that you’re already an attractive, energetic being? You’re already attracting everything you’re in alignment with. The energetic vibration you send into the universe through your thoughts and the words you speak, is what you inevitably end up experiencing and attracting right back to you. Not only does your brain filter out information that doesn’t align with your biased beliefs, so does your physical reality.
If you can learn to rewire your thoughts daily by consciously using your mind as the tool it was always meant to be, you can start to shift your energy — inevitably shifting your reality.
Start by consciously noticing what aligns with your dream reality. And when thoughts come up that are aligned with your old paradigm, consciously choose new thoughts.
Magnetic Secrets
The people who effortlessly get they want either consciously or unconsciously follow these key principles:
Secret #1: Your Ego is not Your Enemy
Every human on this green earth has an Ego. Your Ego is a tool just like your mind. You’re not your mind, nor are you your ego. You’re actually the observer.
Some people mistake ego for who you are, but it’s only a part of it. Your truest self, is your core essence — your soul. You, the observer, are the player of the game while your ego is the “avatar” you use to interact with other beings in this game of life.
If you understand that you can optimize your avatar in order to “level up” your reality, you’ll become unstoppable. This is you detaching from your ego and using it as a vehicle into your dream reality.
Secret #2: Optimize Your Identity
Now that you know that you are not your ego, you can use it as a powerful reality shifting mechanism.
Most people let their physical circumstances dictate their identity, but few understand the power of your identity over your physical circumstances. You may not have control of the way people feel about you, but you do have control over how you treat yourself which can influence how people treat you.
Secret #3 Real Techniques to Shift Your Reality
Shift your identity and watch how reality shifts around you. Here are simple techniques you can use right now to make this shift on a deeper level. If you do this consistently, reality will have no choice but to shift with you.
Write in your journal as if you’re the version of you who has what you want. Embody this new avatar in the present moment. This is a conscious practice to start thinking thoughts aligned with your new identity. Thoughts influence emotional frequency which directly influences your "point of attraction".
Visualize your dream life daily. Do this when you wake up, and when you go to sleep. When you wake up, ask yourself what that version of you would be doing today. How would you move through your day? When you go to sleep, think of the version of you that already has everything you want. Set the intention to align with that reality daily. The more you practice this, the more real it becomes.
Consciously consume. Be aware of what you’re consuming from social media, TV, and music. Your subconscious mind impacts over 95% of your life and doesn’t understand the difference between what’s fake and what’s real. Tailor what you consume to align with the reality you want to create for faster results.
Look for signs and show gratitude. What you focus on expands. Look for signs that things are working out for you. If you practice gratitude for the little things, you’ll train your brain to focus on what's working for you rather than what isn't. So even when things don’t “work out” as planned, you know that even this is happening in your favor. The most resilient people think this way.
Follow excitement, joy, and love in the present moment. This is one of the most attractive energies one can carry. Material desires wont always bring true fulfillment, but the frequency of joy will attract more of your desires. How you feel in the present moment directly affects what you experience in the following moments.
Whether you want to attract a soulmate, a soul tribe, or even a soul aligned career, you’re now one step closer.
If you want to learn more about energetic attraction, download my FREE Energetic Attraction Blueprint here, and watch how your deepest desires begin to chase you.
The reality you desire exists because you exist. You’re an infinite being in an infinite universe with infinite possibilities, and now you’re tapping into the infinite power within you. If you’re reading this, this is a sign you’re on the right path. You’ve already begun shifting your identity into the person who gets everything you want.
See you on the other side,
Nadi <3